The Dash

Okay, so news flash.

We will all die.

Some sooner; some later.

This is always brought home to me when someone famous or notorious or personally connected to me or my family passes on.

But wait! This is not a sad post.

What do we do in the meantime? What do we do “with the dash”, the time allotted to us between the birthday and the date of death that will one day be inscribed on a headstone or crypt plaque or other signage for each and every one of us.

  1. Embrace every single day. Get up in the morning ready to live. Physically grab the twenty four hours ahead of you. Look at them as a palette of new paints, a dictionary full of words not yet used, a long list of notes that only need organization to make a symphony.
  2. Do something fun. Life is hard, it’s messy, it’s tricky, but there is a lot of joy out there. So many of us have lost the capacity to go after it, find it, search for it, feel it. Paint a picture. Ride a bike. Eat an ice cream cone.
  3. Simplify. Cut out the unnecessary, the trivial, the time wasters and the attention grabbers. Put the phone down and kiss your sweetheart like you mean it. Talk, Learn. Relate. Experience. Do one thing at a time.
  4. Make a difference in someone else’s life. Give money. Bake a cake. Give your time. Listen. No, you cannot change the whole world, but you can damn sure change the life of the person sitting right there in front of you, begging for your undivided attention.
  5. Stop worrying! Go back to sentence number two of this blog post. Things will happen when they happen. Some of them will be bad. The truth? You can’t make a single thing happen by worrying about it. It’s wasted effort, it’s wasted energy, and it’s just not productive. Clear your heart and your head for Number 1-4 above.

Have a great day!

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